Sense of Self
When you really
sink into an idea, there is possibility. There is potentially danger where most
of us run on autopilot and not being present. We keep going through our days
operating on the patterns of the past. And often most hard not to resist.
Move away from
inefficient, un-resourceful patterns getting in your way. This is what stops us
from taking opportunities that show up.
What are you
telling yourself?
Typically, we run
over these inner voices and push through with our will. Not always practical(!)
Choose how you
relate to these messages. What is the feeling? Good - Bad? You're the key to
breaking this cycle. Ignoring our inner voices - intuition if you will.
permeates unconsciously often sabotaging any success in the outcome.
Familiar?
Have you ever tried
to get a project completed. You try for three months and it still sits within -
no movement. So, there is choice. A direction to move forward and work out or
keep the brake on.
Experience tells us
we are holding on to a secondary gain. In this instance, worry, anxiety and
fear. Sometimes it is more comfortable as it is a known feeling. The project
then stales, against fears or failure from the past.
Can you do this?
The key is to take
each situation at a time and use some mental discipline. The experience from
the past repeats itself. It is really gone only having its survival in the
mind. How are you relating to those experiences - lessons learned or not?
Learn from the
wisdom of the past so you can take what you can. Move it and pave it forward.
History does not
have to repeat itself.
You have choice!
♥Look at what is
facing you right now what you want to accomplish.
♥Decide how you
will make it work?
♥Is worry going to
take over - for fear of humiliation and failure if this doesn't work?
There is always the
potential of everything going wrong-- should I --could I do that--- destroy the
potential of what could happen. Do some different(!).
Don't let the past
hold you
When we charge
towards a goal all stops to create a project drive us. There is a strong desire
and intent to achieve a result. But every so often we will hit a roadblock
Embrace You and add
on a layer of wisdom and intuition; learning; skills; attitudes; perspective.
Look at a project
or goal say to yourself this is an opportunity. Do you want this opportunity;
what do you love about this new opportunity?
Presence
Your relationship
is to look at a situation as an opportunity understanding clearly there is
opportunity. Look with a grander sense of self.
Try on a new way of
doing things; your life's career, relationship, fun, recreation, spiritual
drive.
Go beyond a sense
of self limitation and self-determined limiting beliefs. These really strangle
and destroy our sense of wonder and risk taking and doing something in a way
that other did not expect of us.
Sometimes learning
lessons is a way forward. We would never know the difference otherwise.
Opportunities
These are the
opportunities within us to pave it forward. You are in a new position of
accepting the challenges or go into a downward spiral of worry. Find the value
in taking on the perspective of looking through the lens of opportunity
Opportunities are
the doorway swinging us into new behaviors, new experience and new attitude.
Trial and error is how we learn. The permission to experience the error.
Step into the
opportunity.
As painful as
things are when we can detach and re-evaluate, a new view is taken. Eventually
you will find the gifts the challenge has afforded you. When you can detach you
will see the gift in the wings
Is it exciting or
not? If you look at the worry of its success, it will drain you. Ask if this is
how you want to feel. Opt out of worry and move forward. Simple? May not! With
persistence possibly.
Reeny coaches
individuals who are stuck, afraid, unsure, in transition, struggling with
self-doubt, frustration, falling back to old patterns
As a True Purpose
Coach, and using techniques to awaken your heart and open your intuitive powers
she guides individuals to embrace a soul aligned path to life that will bring
greater joy, freedom, success, and inner peace.
Her blogs, includes
inspirational articles are written for those who are seeking a new view to
looking at life.
Her new book 'The
Art of Feminine Power'
