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Why Fear Prevents Us From Feeling The Wonderment Of The Present Moment
How To Disassociate
From Fear
Consider the last
time you experienced a fearful thought or emotion? Think about the situation
that caused you to experience this. Now, how did you feel twenty-four hours
following the event? Were you still experiencing the emotions or did your
attention move to something else? Fear is debilitating and can wreak havoc in
our lives if we are unaware. In this period of uncertainty, fear is projected
into our lives without our permission. The news and social media is filled with
catastrophic events worldwide. Fear is sold to us on the premise we will tune
in to the media networks that promote it and remain in a hypervigilant state.
But as you know, this comes at a cost to our sanity and long-term health.
Assuredly, we can find many situations to be concerned about in the world, yet
when we buy into the narrative fear promotes, it steals away the richness of
the present moment.
It is impossible to
experience the aliveness of the present when we are caught in fearful thoughts.
We are projected into the future and experience a cocktail of chemical
reactions that cause stress to the body. However, we can learn to turn down the
volume on fear by shifting our awareness to what is happening within us. By
this I mean, finding practices that help us disassociate from fear. For
example, I enjoy swimming and other forms of exercise. When I swim laps at my
local pool, I don't experience fearful thoughts and even in the ensuing hours,
I am still on a high. This is also true of other hobbies such as being
outdoors, reading and socialising with friends. I try to tune in to selective
news reports to remain informed of current events within my region and
globally. The internet is a wonderful medium that has brought freedom to our
lives but limited us in the way we interact with it. Many people develop addictions
to surfing the internet or scrolling through their phones. How about you? How
do you interact with social media and the news? How do you respond to bad news?
Do you feel sad or depressed? This is one effect of news addiction, it keeps us
hooked like poker machines with their flashing lights and sounds. But we have a
choice and can limit our exposure.
The Future Will
Take Care Of Itself
Fear steals away
the wonderment of the present moment and offers little in return other than
stress and disappointment. It is not a responsible giver but takes away our joy
and well-being. If we subscribe to the narrative it promotes, we have no choice
but to buy in to its way of life. When we do, we are at its mercy because it
has sold us a fictitious way of life based on one aspect of reality. Life is
not about fear and disasters because what we look for, we are certain to find.
If we go looking for negativity and disappointment, we will find it standing on
a street corner waving to get our attention. Though, if we look for joy, bliss
and happiness we must intentionally cultivate them and give them space to
flourish. As mentioned earlier, we ought to find activities or hobbies away
from technology that invigorate us. Constantly browsing the internet and
playing violent video games are not forms of joy and happiness. They are
escapism and addictions and we mustn't convince ourselves we are having fun.
Granted, if you are sixteen years old and wasting the afternoon after school
before your homework that is a different story. Nevertheless, peruse activities
that feed your soul and give you a sense of accomplishment and nurture feelings
of love. Find something that contributes to your personal growth rather than
stealing away time because you are bored.
Are you comfortable
with the ideas expressed so far? Does it make sense that exposing yourself to
fear diminishes your ability to enjoy the present moment since you are
transfixed on what can go wrong? The future will take care of itself. There is
nothing to do other than let go of disempowering thoughts and emotions, to
enjoy the wonderment of the present moment. Considering this, give some thought
to activities you could devote more attention to that nourishes your soul. What
habits would you like to reduce or eliminate altogether? Is it screen time on
your computer, TV or smart phone? If so, don't download an app to reduce your
screen time but make the intention to do so and follow through with it. After
all, fear will prevent us from feeling the aliveness of the present moment as
long as we create a home for it to flourish. We must let go of its negative
state so emotions like love, joy and happiness can fill the void.
Growing Gratitude: A Valuable Life Skill

What would life
look like if we experienced more gratitude? Imagine your satisfaction when
someone expresses gratitude for your efforts; or your contentment when feeling
happy about life, right in this moment. We can all have more of that because
growing gratitude is a valuable life skill we can learn!
The simple attitude
of gratitude is one of the most powerful creative energies we can work with. It
transforms our consciousness because energy flows to whatever we focus on, and
makes it grow.
Gratitude also
increases happiness. When we express genuine appreciation for the goodness we
already enjoy each day, we cultivate happiness in our lives.
Perhaps you have
not yet lost the twenty pounds you want to, but you have learned to make better
food choices. Or you have not yet found the love of your life, but you have
been blessed with loving relatives and friends.
It's a simple yet
powerful principle: You can develop more of what you desire in life by noticing
what you DO have already and growing an attitude of gratitude for that. You
have the power to create more of what you love by expressing genuine
appreciation for the good things you already have.
Expressing
gratitude is a learned skill. It is done not in a superficial or schmaltzy way,
but through genuinely heartfelt, eyeball-to-eyeball or heart-to-heart
connection. It involves appreciation delivered with real meaning rather than
some perfunctory mumblings or syrupy platitudes.
Just think of all
the meaningful things that you have already enjoyed today: the smell of coffee
that got you going, a warm shower, soft towels, a selection of clean clothes in
your closet, sunshine warming your face, tantalizing aromas all around, the
ability to walk and talk... there's so much to be grateful for!
Once the habit of
growing and showing attitude takes hold, you'll start noticing more and more of
life's blessings around you. Gratitude expands our hearts to notice more of
what we already have appreciation for.
Imagine how
relationships would be enhanced if you used the same approach to express
appreciation for the people in your life!
Take a few moments
to consider the relationships you're grateful for. Reflect on the qualities you
appreciate in each of your relatives and friends: the smile on a child's face,
the hug of a loved one, the spontaneous playfulness of a friend... and even
their individual ways of craziness! We can find something to be grateful for in
every person or situation.
I had an eccentric
great-aunt who had the knack for making keen observations about others at the
most inappropriate times. I used to blush in embarrassment at her unflinching
directness, yet when she was no longer able to attend family gatherings, her
special brand of candor was sorely missed. Only then did I realize how her
unique brand of eccentricity enriched our lives.
Perhaps there are a
few people with varying degrees of eccentricity populating your life as well.
They also have a role to fulfill -- even if it is to stretch your tolerance
level, teach patience or give you an opportunity to forgive! And yes, they
offer you an opportunity to grow more gratitude.
Expressing
gratitude is a priceless gift we can offer ourselves and others. Now is a
perfect time to express your gratitude to people who have touched your life.
Let them know what you love about them and how it makes you feel. You'll add
meaning to their lives while strengthening your relationships.
Growing gratitude
is indeed a valuable life skill we can learn to enhance our quality of life.
Sunday, November 17, 2019
Feeling Irritated and Judgmental? How to Find Clarity and Compassion
This post is part 3
of a 3-part series on raising your vibration, so you can live with more energy,
peace, health, love, joy, wisdom, and abundance-so you can be a powerful,
positive, transforming presence in our world.
Step One is
increasing your energetic charge, increasing the amount of energy you have. If
you are tired and depleted, you have little energy to give and no energy to
cultivate a higher frequency of being in this world. Step Two is to recognize
and release the tensions which interfere with the smooth and joyful flow of
this energy through your body, heart, and mind. In this article, we'll explore
Step Three-elevating the quality or frequency of your energetic vibration.
Your overall
energetic vibration is the sum total of where you are coming from at this
moment-the thoughts, feelings, intentions, and actions you are engaged in right
now. The frequency of your energetic vibration shapes how you see the world,
how you see others, and how you see yourself and your possibilities at this
moment. You'll notice I've added "at this moment" to this
description. This is because your energetic frequency is variable-it shifts
from moment to moment depending on what you focus on and how you relate to it.
For example, if you
look through a lens of fear and judgment, you'll notice evidence to back up
this point of view. You'll see the world as a threatening place to be and
anything that is different from you as a threat to your point of view. As a
result, you are likely to feel irritated and react defensively, combatively,
and judgmentally. You're likely to focus on defending your own safety by
sticking to who you know, what you know, and the comfort zone of known habitual
behaviors. In a certain sense this feels safe-even if it leads to more fear,
tension, and conflict.
In contrast, if you
look through a lens of appreciation, gratitude, and trust, you'll notice
evidence to back up this point of view. You'll see the world as an interplay of
diverse possibilities guided by benevolent forces greater than your own. You're
likely to welcome different perspectives, people, beings, and points of view as
teachers who can widen your perspective and expand your consciousness. Instead
of otherness being a threat, it's an invitation to heal from your own past pain
that leads to defensiveness. It opens you to forgiveness and compassion.
While your
energetic vibration is variable, you also have a baseline state-a vibratory
frequency in which you tend to rest. This is your dominant energetic frequency,
which is how you tend to look at life and to which you tend to return. In order
to more significantly and permanently raise your vibration, you need to shift
this baseline frequency-and this takes practice. Like anything you want to grow
in life, you need to repeatedly inhabit your desired energetic frequency until
it becomes your new normal-the state you tend to rest in and return to.
In my experience,
there are two related practices which take you there:
1) Cultivating
open, clear, spacious awareness
2) Inhabiting
specific, higher, energetic frequencies
Let's explore what
each of these means and how to practice them.
Open Clear Spacious
Awareness
If you're feeling
fearful, irritated, and judgmental, it's not likely you can just decide to feel
trusting, compassionate, and loving. That would be like having a muddy stream
and adding bright food coloring to it. You're just going to get a muddy version
of whatever color you add. Before you add color, you must first clean and clear
the stream.
First, it's important
to recognize and acknowledge your current perspective. Notice what you are
thinking, how this is making you feel and act, and the results of this way of
being. Is this the way you want to live?
If not, you can
decide to set aside your current perspective for a moment, so you can explore
other possibilities. You can momentarily let go of how you think things are, so
you can entertain alternatives. With this decision in place, it's time to clean
and clear your stream.
Here's a simple
practice. Take several moments to fully experience each step:
1. Sit comfortably
upright with the soles of your feet on the ground and parallel with each other.
Rest your hands cupped in your lap in a receptive posture. Commit to adopt a
mindful attitude for this practice: paying attention, on purpose, in the
present moment, non-judgmentally-like a curious observer.
2. Take a few,
slow, deep breaths, imagining your whole body fills up when you inhale and your
whole body empties out as you exhale.
3. Let go of your
breathing and feel your body as a whole from the inside. See if it's possible
to feel the entire space inside your skin. Allow a feeling of open, clear,
spacious awareness to spread out through your whole body. Allow any thoughts,
feelings, or sensations to dissolve in this open, clear, space. Allow this
space to expand to include the space around you...
4. As continue to
experience the open, clear space, listen to the silence underneath all sounds
within this space... Then, feel the stillness underneath all movement within
this space...
5. Within this
open, clear space ask, "Who is aware of this space?" See if it's
possible to become aware of the act of awareness itself. Become aware of
Awareness.
Now, keep in mind
that this is a practice. It is something you will get more skillful at the more
you experiment with it. At first, you may have momentary glimpses of this
experience. As you have this glimpse, see if you can sink deeper into this and
become completely absorbed in it.
When you are ready
to move to the second practice, first take a moment to mindfully notice how you
feel. Do you feel even a little more relaxed, open, clear, and spacious than
when you began?
Inhabiting
Specific, Higher, Energetic Frequencies
Now that you've
practiced cleaning and clearing your stream, it's time to inhabit a higher
energetic frequency. I suggest any one of the following: appreciation,
gratitude, trust, love, compassion, peace, light, or joy. Pick one you'd like to
experience and explore now.
Here's the
practice:
1. Return to the
experience of open, clear, spacious awareness. If you need to refresh any of
the steps above, you can do so.
2. Call to mind the
higher energetic frequency you want to experience. Say to yourself, "I
welcome ___ now."
3. Call to mind an
image which represents this state of being to you. What's the first image that
comes to mind when you think of your desired energetic frequency? Bring this
image into your heart and allow it to rest here. Notice how this image makes
you feel.
4. As you inhale,
imagine you are breathing the feeling of this energetic frequency into your
heart. As you exhale, imagine you are sending this energetic feeling outward
into every cell of your body.
5. Let go of your breathing
and soak in the sensation of this higher energetic frequency for as long as you
want.
Notice how you
feel...
As you engage in
these two practices of "Open, Clear, Spacious Awareness" and
"Inhabiting Higher Energetic Frequencies," you'll discover you can
learn to choose where you are coming from. You can choose to raise your
vibration and live from a higher energetic frequency.
I encourage you to
use these two meditative practices daily. Perhaps you can incorporate them into
your morning or bedtime routine? Soon you'll find yourself less and less
gripped by fear, irritation, and judgment and more and more drawn to trust,
compassion, and appreciation. You'll soon be living in a higher frequency
vibration more and more of the time. As you do so, you'll contribute to the
raising of consciousness of all beings and our whole planet.
Thank you for your
practice!
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Tuesday, October 29, 2019
Shifting Your Mind Into High Gear With Subliminal Audios
This is not a
common topic to get into, and that is because using subliminals to change your
life is not a normal or common thing to talk about.
That's not a good
thing considering that most people could easily use audios with powerful and
embedded messages hidden underneath that can literally change their
subconscious thoughts for years to come.
When most people
think of changing their lives that does not often include or have any
connection with using music and nature sounds with something else hidden inside
the audios somehow.
We just have to be
far more open to the fact that subliminals work when properly made, and that
this is definitely a long term thing that can help us and others reprogram our
minds and brains for long term gains that don't easily fall away.
Here we just have
to make that small but important mental move to go toward a new life direction
and embrace a tool that can help us for years to come, or else just stay with
the same old tactics and techniques.
Developing your
mind is a very important though sacred activity that needs to be done far more
often. When life gets crazy and hectic, but our habits and emotions get out of
control, you will know and understand how subliminals can help you.
We don't even have
to do very much to get the messages to change our minds and brains, and that
happens because properly created subliminals have the messages that we need to
release from our past lives and transcend all that holds us back.
None of this may
seem reasonable to people who have never connected themselves with a proper
subliminal creator, but the focus here is that very powerful subliminals can
easily change your life for the better with consistent use.
Staying idle may
not give us the desired results that we obviously crave and desire long term,
but changing things for the better through something as simple and powerful as
subliminal audios might be that next step that we all need.
One of the more
unique aspects of these audios is that they don't require us to believe that
they work in order for us to benefit from their use. That is not common for any
other form of personal development, and it a very different aspect of properly
made subliminal that others just need to understand and embrace far more.
Expand your mind
and life using effective subliminals
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/10110615
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/10110615
Sunday, October 27, 2019
Moving Into A New Future With Subliminal Audios
Moving forward and
developing your life away from any past negativity and turmoil is a very
challenging idea and task for most people, though it doesn't have to be this
way.
We have to
understand that our lives can bend and change very quickly if we use the right
tools to enhance ourselves, but that does not mean that we can use just any
tool to bring us back on track.
Most people on this
earth that want to be better don't do anything physically to change and flip
their life circumstances, and that is a very surprising thing because that
means that everyone stays roughly the same over time.
If you want large
and positive life change to happen very drastically in your life then we need
to change our thinking permanently for the better, and that will not happen
unless you use something like very powerful subliminal audios to help shift and
change your mind.
Once you change
your perception and thereby your personal world, you will see that nothing will
ever be this same. We know this is immediately true because every life changing
moment instantly changes the way we think about our worlds and life in a very
large and drastic way.
There is nothing
worse than knowing that you should be operating mentally and physically at a
much higher level, but you know and understand that somehow you did not do the
right things earlier in life. Now somehow you need a much greater and more
intense series of changes to happen for you to get back on track.
The personal
development community only vaguely knows of the power of subliminals in a very
different way, and only those who have personally tried and used an effective
subliminal audio long term know how intensely powerful this experience can be.
It is almost
entirely based upon personal experience, and that is also how we know that our
worlds and lives as a whole need a large boost. Everything has to change for
the better and we can already sort of feel our lives morphing into something
else very positively different.
If that is the
change that we need to experience, then it might just be what we have to do
going forward. Changing the past out so that we can embrace a new, stronger and
more successful future does not have to be about accepting the past and present
without change.
We might have a new
and much stronger life waiting for us right around the corner, but we have to
be the ones that reach out and embrace that new future.
Article Source:http://EzineArticles.com/10117395
Tuesday, August 27, 2019
Law of Attraction: How to Know What Actions to Take
Image: Andrew Z. Colvin
What actions should I take to manifest using the Law of Attraction?
The answer to this question is within you. Only you know your life and the path you are taking. Only you know where you want to be in life... what the difference is between where you are now and where you want to be. Only you have the information necessary to plan how to get "from here to there." Only you have the strength to execute the plan once you've made one.
Where, oh Where, Is this Information?
There are a few places within you that hold the answer to the question of action:
In your daily thoughts and actions, the answer may be hidden in plain sight. As you go through each day, keep an awareness of what you are doing and thinking. Is there anything that keeps popping up? Anything that seems like a nuisance to you, or a need that people may have that is not filled? This may be a good starting place for some action to take or plan to make.
In Your Subconscious Mind
Repetitive conscious thoughts lead to the subconscious mind "taking on" the question or problem and processing it. This is something that can be used most advantageously by you to unlock the question of action. Repeat to yourself a question about what you need to do to manifest, such as "What do I need to do to get... ?" Repeat this many times a day, especially when you are going to sleep. After some repetition, the subconscious will start working on answering this question. Keep in mind that the subconscious mind operates a lot faster and more efficiently than the conscious mind, so it can process all of the information you have stored in the context of the question you want it to answer. When the answer comes, it will usually come "in a flash" during your daily life. Take notice when this happens and act on it as soon as possible. Taking this action will usually lead to positive results. It will also let your subconscious mind know that you trust it. This leads to better and faster results every time you become inspired to take action.
In Your Intuition
Like your subconscious mind, your intuition is very powerful and needs to "know" that you trust and appreciate all it does for you. The best way to make us of your intuition is to start trusting it and acting on your "hunches."
Affirmations That Help Speed Up this Process
You can use the affirmations below (or some variation that works for you) to enlist all three parts of your mind in this process a bit faster.
I trust my intuition to tell me what I need to do.
My subconscious mind shows me the path to success,
Every day, I notice opportunities to achieve my goals.
I follow my hunches with great reward.
Great ideas flash into my mind all the time.
I always just know what to do.
Be patient and persistent when activating the parts of your mind. If they're out of practice, so to speak, it may take a little time. Hang in there, keep going, and you will soon know exactly what you need to do to manifest your dreams.
Lastly, ACT! When you know what to do, act on it. Even if you do just a little bit each day, it will make all the difference.
For more information on how to use the Law of Attraction, please visit https://ness-numerology.com. As you can see from the link, we combine Numerology with the LoA tools, making a very powerful combination for you to "live the dream."
Article Source: https://EzineArticles.com/expert/Wil_M/2672538
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